When someone tells me "no", it doesn't mean I can't do it.
It just means I can't do it with them. - Karen E. Quinones Miller
Do you have someone in your life who is a discourager? They may be cloaked as a pragmatist, someone who always brings up the practical issues instead of joining in your enthusiasm for an idea. Or they may get bogged down in all of the nuts and bolts, insisting that every detail be addressed before moving forward. A discourager may just flat-out tell you that your idea is not possible. There are already too many obstacles in life to spend any time with anyone who will drag you down.